Believe & Understandings

Assalam u alaikum wr wb,

From the last few days, I have been thinking about the fact that understanding is a big thing related to all matters of one’s act. In life the most important thing is what understanding really is?

How is believe different from understanding and acknowledging different notions in life?

These are the questions each of us should ask ourselves.  Do we know the way we practice both of these things is right or wrong? Do we seek knowledge for understanding it even?

Belief is a matter of heart. I realized lately, what we have in hearts is unknown to everyone and even to us at times. Even if we are doing a good deed, we might not be focused enough for its impacts and beneficiaries. What is in our hearts is eventually what matters because heart is our guide to stay focused. I always thought what it is like to think from the heart. Strange concept, isn’t it? It really is not that strange. Some things we believe in always doesn’t have to make sense for instance how continuous does our heart beat and we have no control over it but we somehow believe that it will keep on happening. This belief however is very strengthening and it doesn’t fall off easily. Sometimes it needs practically something’s to happen for us to realize okay, yes this can happen. A man died so, I can die too.  If no one dies in front of us, we won’t believe it.

Reality is another name for belief.

In other words, what happens to us in reality it becomes our belief. At large, when many people believe in it, it becomes a fact. As a matter of fact, fact is an experience which is proven by many because the outcomes of the situation were the same for all of them. Is it really true though? There are rare cases as well. Odd ones out as well.  Miracles as well. There is a reason those things exist apart from the lies. But, the real understanding is in believing of an individual. Each of us believe in a different level and we all perceive life as it comes to us by experiencing if what we believed in was even true or not? That is the reason why everyone has different beliefs and perceptions.

Believes are firm because conviction has played an important role in its making. A true believe cannot be altered easily as it either based on experience or proper research. Important thing to remember is, control over each and every one of our thoughts will rise to that belief. Which thought will we give power, will become our belief.

Have a Nice Day by practicing good thoughts. 🙂



Fe Aman Allah.



What is my dream? How do I attain it?

Dream, passion and motivation to do what is right and not what is easy is the task every individual should have. Some dreams tend to be only dreams because they are not followed also because they are not allowed by others sometimes. Believing in yourself is also an art. What we are is what we become.

I never understood this quotation:

“Watch your thoughts, they become words;
watch your words, they become actions;
watch your actions, they become habits;
watch your habits, they become character;
watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”


The meaning of this is however very much true. Life is actually a balance and it is a scale which requires balance and focus all the time. For if we loose even one bit, we kind of loose our track. It all starts with the thoughts.

Thoughts, thoughts and thoughts. Several thoughts goes across our minds during the day and even in the middle of the night. Sometimes we are aware of these thoughts , other times we are not. For instance getting up in the morning and thinking about how I will spend my day is a controlled thought. Whereas a dream and some thoughts that arise after a horrible dream, are not controlled patterns of a thinking process. While conscious and while being wide awake ,we can only talk about the real concrete thoughts and that makes sense as well.

Thinking is wanting. We move ahead by recognizing that this is something I really desire, that is why I am thinking about it. A dream comes true when this desire gets the right direction. A person who wants to be doctor , not only have to read books but also have to have a passion of wanting to know more and more about life about bio. It goes same with every other profession or dream. You don’t need to have a degree for your dream. You don’t recognition from the other people, they will automatically know that you are the best. It’s a deriving energy inside of a person which helps them acquire what they really want and at this point they have stopped thinking about the people.

Motivation to do what we want is important. We have to find something or someone who motivates us on the daily basis or even weekly basis or something we look up-to in order to keep going forward in-spite of all the hurdles and troubles which comes our way.

After motivation comes the action plan and we keep on striving until we have achieved our dream goal. It might seem to be a three easy step process but its not that easy. It requires hard work for sure.

All the hard work will be worth at the end of our goal.

Have a nice day and keep moving towards making your dream come true.


When you see me..

A little poem for the way a girl should see herself and the way others look at her despite her contribution in making the world a better place.

Today you see me as an emotional fool,
Yet you haven’t seen the courage, emotions bring..
Today you have just made fun of me,
Yet you haven’t seen the ways I have dealt with nuisance..
Today you have made me afraid again of reaching the success,
Yet you don’t realize my power and courage of getting back up..
Today you have hurt me through another turn,
Yet I smiled just because I know some turns have to be rough enough..

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Why do Muslims Pray?

Assalam u alaikum wr wb,

Many a times , moving with life , we get frustrated and tired. We get to understand that the life we are living isn’t giving us all that we desire. It isn’t pointing out exactly the things we want and making them reach our way. This disappointment leads to something known as frustration. Whether we want or not ,we do get frustrated at times in our lives. Every once in a while no matter what the reason is, life happens. It won’t be wrong to say that sometimes life is a little bit unfair. Although it will also be no wrong to say that life balances out on other times and makes up for our bad times. Life does make sense.

To eradicate the building of negative thoughts inside of us , we all need some peace of mind. This is why Muslims pray, it gives us the motivation to stay positive and it gives us the hope. The connection with Allah subhana wa taala is a very important connection. To realize its importance is only through one way and that is consistent prayer. How can praying remove the negative thoughts? Sometimes we are so down that we complain even in our prayer! Well, that’s the whole point when I see it ,praying helps us talk our mind out to someone who helps us in a way we need to be helped. Isn’t it beautiful? Isn’t it what we all want , for someone to see our situation and then maybe work around with it for our sake. I think this is what we all want at times. It is also a beautiful reminder that the controlling power is the supreme power of Allah and at the end we always ask Him for assistance.

Situations are good and bad but wherever we are, we must pray.

  • Prayer is the contentment of soul and mind.
  • It is a gateway out of the negative thoughts.
  • It keeps us consistent and sharp.
  • It disciplines us.
  • It guides our shame and essence of knowledge.
  • It gives us humbleness in all that we do.
  • It directs us to our destination.
  • It helps us gain motivation and consciousness to do the right thing at the right time.

Pray right to stay right.
May Allah help us all to pray and to complete our prayer and acknowledge the importance of praying, consistently. Ameen.


Change is a New Hope!

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Hope is a small word yet it contains meanings of a mountain. To lead this life however hope is very important. The important question is what makes this beautiful positive hope? The question needs an answer and a proper one. We all talk about the goodness of hearts and what it means to stay positive and firm in our decisions. Although we keep on forgetting the how part of this question! We keep on mitigating our belief by practicing very less amount of what positive we are saying or even thinking.

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Life demands confidence rather than conflict..

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Life demands confidence rather than conflict from us. Doing something out of sheer courage requires confidence. Standing up to something or standing up for someone does makes us be a little bit better characteristically.

This courage doesn’t mean to be rude but to be straight forward and right in your decisions. Courage means to be patient. It means to be sensitive for our loved ones. Courage is to bring out sunshine for a better tomorrow. When we are not sure of ourselves we make the mistakes we never intend to make. To be really sure , we need to think of and analyze everything .

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