Being Moderate !

Confusion , confusion, and more confusion. It’s all really confusing and poor sometimes. I think these are just the situations. Situations of different sorts but we all go through them each day. Some people give up easily and others don’t . Some people put up with the fight others just let go without even trying. Some keep on fighting till the point of attainment and think the struggle is worth all the happiness that comes afterwards and others well they keep trying to prove its worthless. Funny how we know exactly what our heart desires and what is good for us and what isn’t still we try not even to stand up for the “situation”. Continue reading “Being Moderate !”


Learn to say “NO” and appreciate what you have at the same time ..

It’s in human nature and it is tempting to get the praise, to feel good . Too much of anything is bad though ! It’s like you can’t stomach it any more like you want to puke any second when you have too much of a something even what your heart desires the most. Human is by far the most unpredictable and weirdest creature of all. The more i get to know more humans, the more i get the former part . . .

No matter appreciation and encouragement should be there when needed but then also perseverance should be held in account. It’s much adequate for a human to go down the road and find somewhere peaceful to sit down and study oneself, study every aspect of one’s personality .A minute number of human actually do that where as many say that they know themselves more than any body else,  truth is actually the very reverse .   No matter if one admits or not , it is still very important . 

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Destination is Jannah For those who struggle..

A big whole journey is in front of us each time , everyday . We get up for a purpose and go back to sleep with a hope. A hope that we’ll get up again just like we hope that the flower kali will bloom the very next day. Sometimes these blooming hopes bursts and just to be on the safe side, just to know that we are on the right track;  religiously,  we should keep working on it. A struggle that has to be “Continuous” and “Stead fast “, struggle of that sort surely helps us grow spiritually. Right , isn’t it? 


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We only accept the love we think we deserve…

Today , it’s probably best day to write about the kind of love that the world accepts and the one that is bound for rejection is through complacent judgement. Funny are the people to me at times. Even the ones that i care about.

Somewhere somebody asked , “Why do we always pick out the wrong people to love ? Those who literally treat us as inferiors or want us to change? ” Came there a beautiful reply ,” We only accept the love we think we deserve.” 

I had been wondering for quite sometime now? What is love actually? From what i see around it’s the money, it’s the beauty, it’s the status. Wait a minute, yes! That’s what it is. Nature lets you think in equally realistic ways when you give actual thoughts to it, It takes every beat of my heart to acknowledge that a pearl is the one who is beautiful inside , one who has worked up on the nourishing of the soul rather go behind the allure of appearances.

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Just Go with the Flow of hope flooding off the negativity..

It’s true that life beguiles you , life takes you from a train ride to a roller coaster ride. Funny how the excitement and ecstasy of both differs. I would love to ride a roller coaster again. Anyway, sticking to the topic more i want to write about how hard is life sometimes. 
Been in a class yesterday i realized or i should say the realization dawned upon me that life is not a bed of thorns if not a bed of roses . Things get to us and slip away from us but only to teach us something. Somebody might be there with you one day and will vanish the very next day. Life beguiles but is strange at times. 
I’ve learnt it the way i ought to learn it ,

You can never ever give up on the journey ahead of yourselves not matter how hard you stumble along.. No matter how ever much times you fall down. You have to get back up and stand firmly on your ground . 

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Purpose of Quran ( Another Question )

Asslam u alaikum Wr Wb,

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol,  no person,  no grave, no prophet,  no imam,  no dai,  nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

The basics of Aqeedah to be right is the first and of utmost importance for the Muslims. So much of in today’s world does the Muslim go astray just because either they don’t read for themselves and don’t actually ponder over if it’s right the way that they are following their religion, Or just some accustomed beliefs being practiced for years and years. They might be right for all i say but why confirmation might leave you breathless. You might be going too hard on yourselves whereas it would be too easy in the first place. One of the basic purposes of Quran is to make your faith right, by following only the sahih teachings. Now there would be many times when it’d be too hard to do just that but then again Allah rewards the one who is striving and that is something that cannot be denied.

Another question to be discussed here, its a very confusing for many of the muslimah’s . I hope someone get a little benefit insha Allah.

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