Been thinking about many scenarios which are difficult to deal with, and which eventually leads to unexpected and often bad feelings for others.
Regret is something one should never do, no matter what it is a feeling which gives away negative energy so always try to use another word for the failures or mistakes like, “I haven’t accomplished that yet” or “I am going to learn about this scenario more attentively now either by observation or by experimentation”. This is because regret is never flexible and you can only dumb down the voices inside but never fully get rid of them, no matter however much sound/distractions you produce outside for yourself.
Lessons learnt is a completely different mindset and it gives us room for growth and integrity. It is such a flexible balloon that it can only expand and expand. This expansion is the best part of this mindset. Now, every human being is weak and makes mistakes. Every human being should own their mistakes and instead of bringing down others by pointing out their faults, we all should talk about own faults. But, that’s so funny author?! Are we mad or something? No, but that’s what owning your mistakes mean. The actual meaning of finding faults and correcting and grooming oneself would happen if the thoughts and eventually talks are redirected in this direction. Learn to live with your vulnerability because it is what makes us beautiful. We all are dependent on each other one way or another so we all should be able to empathize rather than hide away in different layers. A perfect human being is nobody’s favorite and they can never be. When we want to talk about the faults of others, we should be well aware of our own. This approach will not only help us to not hurt others but also we will be able to grow so much more as better human beings.
This post is dedicated to all of the people out there who hurt others with their words and suspicions voluntarily or involuntarily rather than choose to be kind and empathetic. Always apologize so you never have to regret rather it will become a lesson well learnt for you. Groom away. Cheers.
Between what is said and not meant and what is meant and not said, Most love is lost. Khalil Jibran.
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